GOODBYE: It is hard to say goodbye to our loved ones when they die and are released from the human body to return back to God.  We that are left behind have such a hard time letting go of them.

Our heart is filled with sorrow and we think of our loved one as dead -- gone forever.  Just as a butterfly was once a caterpillar that seemed to die yet became a beautiful winged creature that flies about the family and friends it left behind.  However, the others do not see the beautiful butterfly, nor would they recognize it.  We are the same, even though we receive many signs we do not recognize, or feel our loved ones.  That is because we think  they no longer exist.

There are many signs sent by your loved ones; lights will turn on and off ,  or you  will smell a certain smell that was their smell, or their favorite song will suddenly play and you can feel their presence.  Call your loved one's name and acknowledge them,   thank them for giving you a sign.

I am sorry for your grief.  I have been there.  I know these signs do not let us feel the touch of our loved one's hand , or see them.  They will sometimes give us the feeling of their presence.  They will sometimes give us a feeling they are near,  by the feel of a hand or a light touch.  I have learned to accept when they are  with me.  I talk to them.   Have no doubt you will also know they are there..    

 Call your loved ones name and ask that they give you a sign and with an open mind allow yourself to hear your love ones speak to you through your mind.